dear me, read me

A service that sends you an email from your past self.

How does it work?

Then what?

It is stored for 30 days until we send it back to you. After that it is deleted from our system.

Why would I do this?

It's like a diary but one that forces you to listen to your past self.
Some people gain perspective from this. Others track progress.

Kind Regards,

you.

Can I choose when my email gets delivered?

Free users receive their emails after 30 days. Premium users can customize their delivery schedule from 5 days to 5 years and can also specify a time of day when they receive it.

How people use this app?

The app is used for a variety of purposes but most people use it to reflect on their past self.
But anekdotally, there are a few categories:

Goal-setting and productivity
Some use their own email for monthly check-ins, accountability letters, or capturing their mindset at the start of big projects.
Journaling and self-development
People already in reflection via journalling appreciate the built-in time delay for perspective.
New parents
Parenting can be overwhelming, but you really want to remember those milestones. This service helps document moments with your babies/toddlers and serve as a the reminder of how far you've come.
Entrepreneurs
There is a struggle with isolation and many benefit from past-self encouragement during tough stretches. The timing works well for monthly business reviews too.
Therapy and mental health
People working through challenges could write themselves encouragement, track progress, or set reminders about their growth journey. The delay creates natural reflection points.
Better habbits
We all want to live healthier and drink less. But for motivation it can be easier to listen to your past self and act on it.

How do I manage my account?

After sending your first email, you'll receive a link to create an account where you can manage your delivery preferences and how many messages are in the queue.